This challenge is almost too simple. Go put more fun into everything you do. Be more fun this week. Switch your daily fun percentage from 10% of the time, to 90% of the time. And consciously pay attention to the difference it makes in everything else.
Let me know about your experience with this challenge on instagram @wayofthebonfire. Or send an email to nate@wayofthebonfire.com.
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The second installment in the ongoing “Lessons from everywhere” series where we believe you can learn valuable lessons from just about anything.
A lifetime of fishing has brought me way more lessons than just the 13 + 1 in this episode, but this should distill a good bit of it down into some solid nuggets of wisdom. You will become better at fishing, at experiencing fishing, as well as at life if you listen carefully. See the list below and let me know if you would add any.
Bonus: 1. Its not just a hobby. Its a connection, a bond, and a legacy.
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Also, I’d love to connect with you and hear your thoughts, and feedback on the podcast or a particular show, which you can do by sending a message to the podcast handle on instagram at https://www.instagram.com/wayofthebonfire/ or if you don’t trust your self to not get sucked into accidentally scrolling endlessly on social media, you can you email me at nate@wayofthebonfire.com.
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Sometimes we think the people who have given us great advice and guidance are always right. Its a weird shortcut we take once we have a little trust built up. Is any human ever always right? Well then that would make them not human wouldn’t it.
On this episode I share lessons learned from taking bad advice from good people, and one way of thinking about how to stop doing that.
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I’d love to connect with you and hear your thoughts, and feedback on the podcast or a particular show, which you can do by sending a message to the podcast handle on instagram at https://www.instagram.com/wayofthebonfire/ or if you don’t trust your self to not get sucked into accidentally scrolling endlessly on social media, you can you email me at nate@wayofthebonfire.com.
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Some things in life are things we do once. Some things for a while. Some things we try. Some things we do on and off, and some we never stop.
When we consciously decide and commit to never stop something, it becomes confounding and compounding.
We discuss what we can do to control what is conditional and what is unconditional. The commitment makes it inevitable and infinite in its impact.
A commitment to not ever stop is different than never give up. You can say, I will never give up on something that has a natural end. Like a boxing match. You may not give up during the match. But the match ends. So saying I will never stop a thing focuses on lifelong never done commitments.
The power of consistency and habits and determination and discipline all have a great value and are covered a lot by gurus and in books. Not stopping can co-exist and amplify these, but it is not dependent on them.
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My number one lesson learned in the last year on gaining clarity and unblocking the things you did not know were holding you back.
Its a brand new “Riggleism” from yours truly. “Learn to let go from the get go”.
When you hold on to the wrong things, resent, personalize, or defend as a default, it is blinding and the enemy of connection and fulfillment.
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I’d love to connect with you and I need to hear your thoughts, and feedback, and any ideas you have on the podcast or a particular show, which you can do by sending a message to the podcast handle on instagram at https://www.instagram.com/wayofthebonfire/ or if you don’t trust your self to go on social media without scrolling and losing time, you can email me at nate@wayofthebonfire.com.
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Conversations are underrated. Because we waste the bigger opportunities hidden in so many of them.
I think they contain the key or the map leading to everything and anything we could possibly want or need. But we let our fear, egos, indifference, ignorance, and impatience get in the way.
This episode is chock full of tactics and principles from personal experience, and decades of mistakes on learning what not to do, and how being real, being open, and being curious is the key, to unlocking the bigger treasure they contain.
Its not just about pretending to be interested in someone to win them as your friends and influence them. (Sorry Dale Carnegie) Its about actually being interested in them, and not letting your agenda, or assumptions, or anticipations, or shortcuts, or desire for control or personal gain or a quick win, get in the way of something far greater.
Its about bringing patience, and practice and true transparency, thoughtfulness, empathy, and intention. Knowing when to speak and when not to.
Easier said than done. And always a work in progress. But its worth the effort.
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In this one, we have movie references and two questions to stay focused on what will or won’t help a situation.
Would it help?
How is this helping me?
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I’d love to connect with you and hear your thoughts, and feedback on the podcast or a particular show, which you can do by sending a message to the podcast handle on instagram at https://www.instagram.com/wayofthebonfire/, or to skip the social media scrolling sand trap you can you email me at nate@wayofthebonfire.com.
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Finally, we land on the 4th and uniting element of The Way Of The Bonfire.
The Chemical Chain Reaction or Connection!
Enjoy!
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Some people bring a presence that is contagious in a good way. Sometimes we are in a great mood and state of being and we don’t even realize how we got there. Its usually not just how you rolled out of bed, but is strongly based on a choice you made, or someone else’s influence. Today I share stories from the life of Big Rig that we can use to purposely and intentionally develop that muscle of positive influence to be a bigger bonfire.
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We don’t wear pagers anymore, but anyone can metaphorically page us. This one is eye opening if you consider that you may be unintentionally bound to a 24/7 “on-call” shift in your life to more people than you think you are, and that pager is not silent.
The simple tactical exercise in this episode takes maybe 30 seconds to create awareness, but it brings back hours and days of your time if you do something with that awareness.
Enjoy!
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